YOUR BODY IS THE SYMPTOM, NOT THE PROBLEM
Over the last week, I’ve had three inboxes from different people saying ‘man, congratulations, you’re doing so well…and I need help.’
In the most raw, lonely, low points in our day, it’s as if the truth shows its real face.
It’s when a man allows himself to feel vulnerable, for just a second, that he sees a glimpse of what his life COULD be like, if he had the courage to go after it.
But why is it that we’re so reluctant to take the first step?
Why is it that when we let ourselves get ‘busy’ again with work, family or other tasks, we so easily go back into the comfort zone?
It’s called the ‘comfort zone’ but it’s far from comfortable.
It’s a state which we call ‘normal’, but which is filled with discontent, boredom, unease and resistance to the present moment.
That constant feeling of ‘is this all there is? This is not making me happy’
It’s like the hum of an air-conditioner that we’ve become so used to, because it’s there all the time…
Most of us use alcohol, drugs, work, family or food to distract us from the reality.
And this causes the rapid deterioration of our bodies.
The ‘treatment’ that we’re using (alcohol, food, et al) to ‘fix’ the problem gives rise to your ‘symptoms’.
Weight gain, tiredness, snapping at others, stress and then eventually, diabetes, heart disease, gout, arthritis… these are just symptoms.
They are not the ACTUAL problem.
The problem stems from the fact that you have lost yourself.
What it means to be YOU man!
What makes you happy, what makes you feel loved.
Here we’re getting to the root cause, not pissing around with surface level crap.
How do I know this?
Because I’ve been there.
Keeping myself as distracted as possible so I never had to face the reality of my life situation.
It changed when I created leverage. This is a KEY word!
I spent money on a coach to get help; I invested in books and courses.
Because what I realised was that I needed to raise the stakes so that I was invested.
So that I had something to lose.
Is it perfect now? No way!
But it’s a million times better than being the victim and acting like you don’t have a choice when indeed you do.
It’s this reason that the majority of my personal coaching clients come to me when they’re near ready to give up.
Because I’ll not only help them treat the symptoms, but we’ll deal with the root cause.
And you will get results.
Reach out if you want this…
Let’s get creating a plan for you!