I WISH I HAD A MAGIC WAND
In society,
We tell each other things like ‘𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳’
Or
It’s ‘𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘢𝘶𝘭𝘵’
But I actually think that gives us a false sense of entitlement…
Like someone is coming to save us…
It strips us of ‘𝘰𝘸𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘵’
When the actual fact is,
𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞
And that sounds harsh, but it’s not meant harshly
I thought I deserved better,
And that my ‘𝘴𝘵𝘶𝘤𝘬𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴’ was not my fault,
Truth is, it was my fault
Because I waited for someone to help me,
Rather than take control,
I waited until I hit rock bottom to act
I hoped for things to get better,
Nothing at all changed until I did something about it…
𝐒𝐨, 𝐈 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐚 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐢𝐜 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐝,
I’d wave it over you and say,
‘I wish for you to realise just what you can do if you start now’
And I mean, GO ALL IN!
Not this toe-dipping thing,
Like, ALL IN!
Completely SCRAP your current environment,
And decide to love yourself, so you can fully love others,
Coaching is emotionally hard at times,
Because you just want everyone to win,
But you can’t win it for them…